I am Ricecake

it’s been a while…

since my last meaningful post here… oh well… lately, I have lost and gained a lot in this journey I am taking.  And honestly, there’s just so much going on in my head that I really can’t think of what to really write about…

well let’s give it a shot…

fate, destiny, or whatever you want to call it…  I believe that we write our own of it.  I don’t like the idea of everything is already written ahead of you.  Because if that’s true then what’s the sense of living without having the chance of making your own choices that would not necessarily going to satisfy what was predetermined in the future?  If ever it is true that something is already written for you then I think we still have the power to overwrite it.  Because I think one of the greatest gifts that God has bestowed on us is the gift of “free will”.

It is our own and nobody can ever take it away from us (unless He is God and that you’ve done something really shitty that pissed Him off).

So with free will we write our own fate.  And meeting that significant other really depends on your free will and not on what was written in some prophecy book.

So when do two people become fated for each other?  In my opinion, it is when their free will connects and unites.  When each other’s choices lead them to each other’s arms.

But this theory I have really gets messy when love comes in… hehe.. oh well.. that is something I really don’t have a good grasp of yet… sometimes your heart makes more powerful choices than your brain… and you can’t just run away from it… damn… but at least, that is still some choice you have there hehe…

The future is vague and it really does not make too much sense.  It is what you make of the life you are living today.  So focus on this moment and the choices that you will make.  This moment is the only thing that is truly yours so make the most out of it.